Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl (Over Text Or In Person)

Flirting doesn’t have to be complicated—sometimes, all it takes is asking the right question to spark a smile, a laugh, or even a blush. Whether you’re chatting face-to-face or sliding into her DMs, flirty questions are a fun way to show interest without being too serious. From short and cute to clever and bold, these questions help you keep the vibe playful while letting her know you like her.

In this article, we’ve rounded up the best flirty questions to ask a girl—whether it’s over text, in person, or when you just want to make her feel special.

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Short Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

Do you always look this good, or is it just when I’m around?
Can I be the reason you smile today?
Do you believe in love at first sight—or should I walk by again? 😉
What’s your idea of a perfect date?
Would you ever let me steal a kiss?
Do you like surprises—or should I plan one to find out?
What’s the cutest thing a guy has done for you?
Do you think we’d make a good team?
What’s your guilty pleasure snack? (I’ll bring it on our date 😏)
If I asked you out right now, would you say yes?
Do you prefer sweet talks or witty comebacks?
Can I be your favorite notification?
Do you like being called “beautiful” or “cute” more?
If I made you laugh, would that earn me a hug?
Do you think I’d be a good kisser?
What song makes you think of love instantly?
Do you believe in fate—or should I keep flirting until you do?

Coffee date or movie night—what’s your vibe?
Do you like guys who make you laugh… or guys who make you blush?
Can I be both? 😏
What’s one thing you find instantly attractive?
Do you like flirty questions—or should I stop?
Would you rather I call you now or plan a date later?
What’s your favorite way to spend a Friday night?
Can I be a part of that plan sometime?
Do you like playful teasing?
If we were stuck in an elevator, would that be the best or worst thing ever?

Do you like hand-holding, or is that too cheesy?
What’s your dream vacation spot? (Maybe we can go 😉)
Do you believe in soulmates?
Can I tell you a secret? I think you’re amazing.
Do you like bold guys—or the shy ones who surprise you?
If I said you look gorgeous right now, would you believe me?
Do you think flirting is an art—or just natural chemistry?
Would you rather I text you goodnight or good morning?
Do you like spontaneous plans?
Can I guess your type—or just hope it’s me?
Do you like cheesy pickup lines?
What’s one thing you wish a guy would do for you?
Would you let me win in a game, or are you competitive?
Do you like slow dances—even without music?
Can I steal a little bit of your time this week?
Do you like being chased—or doing the chasing?
If I wrote you a love note, would you read it?
Do you believe in little gestures or big surprises?
Can I ask you one more flirty question? 😏
What’s your favorite compliment to receive?
Do you like guys who text first—or let you make the move?
If I dared you to smile, would you?
Should we turn this conversation into a date?

Cute Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

What’s the cutest thing someone has ever done for you?
Do you blush easily—or should I test it out?
If I said you make my day better, would you believe me?
Do you prefer cuddles or kisses?
Can I be your good luck charm?
Do you like sweet messages before bed?
What’s your favorite pet name—cutie, babe, or something else?
Do you like it when someone holds the door—or your hand?
Can I be the reason you giggle today?
Do you like stargazing—or would you rather watch a rom-com?
If I called you adorable, would you argue?
Do you believe butterflies in the stomach are real—or am I just imagining them?
What’s your dream ice cream date flavor?
Do you like matching hoodies with someone special?
Would you rather I surprise you with flowers or chocolates?
Do you like it when someone remembers small details about you?
Can I steal a smile right now?
Do you like playful nicknames?
What’s your idea of the cutest date ever?
Do you prefer long walks or cozy nights in?
Would you share your fries with me—or make me order my own?
Do you like hand-written notes—or cute texts with emojis?
If I drew you a doodle, would you keep it?
Do you like surprise hugs?
Can I be your plus one to everything?
Do you believe in cheesy love songs—or roll your eyes at them?
What’s your go-to smiley emoji?
Do you like when someone sends you random memes to make you laugh?
Can I claim the title of “favorite person to talk to”?
Do you like breakfast in bed—or dinner under the stars?
If I showed up with your favorite snack, would that win me points?
Do you believe in silly inside jokes making people closer?
Do you like when someone texts you just to say hi?
Would you share your playlist with me?
Do you like surprise phone calls—or planned chats?
Can I make you laugh more often?
Do you like silly selfies—or serious ones?
What’s your favorite way to be spoiled?
Do you like when someone tells you they miss you?
If I said I think about you a lot, would that make you smile?
Do you like cheesy rom-coms—or action movies?
Can I ask you the cutest question ever: when’s our next date?
Do you like corny jokes if they come with a smile?
Would you share your hoodie with me—or should I bring mine?
Do you like slow dances in the kitchen?
What’s your idea of “aww” worthy?
Do you like when someone compliments your laugh?
Can I make you laugh right now?
Do you like silly TikToks—or deep talks better?
If I called you “mine,” would that be too soon?

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What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
Do you think we’d make a cute couple?
Would you rather I plan a romantic date or a fun spontaneous one?
What’s something you secretly find attractive in a guy?
If I asked you to dance right now, would you say yes?
Do you get butterflies around me—or is that just me?
If we had to binge a show together, what would you pick?
Would you rather I serenade you with a song or write you a note?
Do you think I’d make you laugh every day?
If I asked you out tomorrow, what would you want to do?
Do you believe in “right person, right time”?
What’s one thing about me that you find interesting?
Do you like guys who text good morning—or late night flirts?
What’s the most romantic thing you can imagine?
Do you think we’d win “cutest couple” if we were together?
What’s your dream date night?
Do you believe in best friends turning into something more?
Would you let me cook for you—even if I burn the toast?
Do you like holding hands in public?
What’s your favorite compliment to hear?
Do you think I’d be a good boyfriend?
What’s the sweetest thing a guy could do for you?
Do you like surprises—or do you prefer hints first?
Would you rather cuddle during a movie or after?
What’s your favorite romantic movie?
If I challenged you to a staring contest, who’d win?
Do you believe sparks are real—or just in movies?
What’s the boldest thing you’ve done for someone you like?
Would you let me win at a game—or beat me fair and square?
Do you think about me when I’m not around?
What’s your dream travel destination—with someone special?
Would you rather kiss in the rain or under the stars?
Do you like slow dancing—even if there’s no music?
If I called you “mine,” would you smile?
What’s one thing you wish I’d ask you right now?
Do you like compliments whispered—or said out loud?
Would you say yes if I asked you on a coffee date?
What’s one thing that instantly makes you fall for someone?
Do you think I’m your type?
Would you save me a seat next to you forever?
Do you like handwritten notes—or late-night texts?
If I asked for a hug, would you give me one?
Do you like little surprises—or grand gestures?
Would you rather I kiss your hand or your forehead?
Do you think we’d get along on a road trip?
What’s one quality you secretly look for in a guy?
Do you like when someone remembers small things about you?
If I leaned closer right now, what would you do?
Do you believe in destiny—or people making their own?
Would you like to see where this connection takes us?

Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl Over Text

What’s your favorite emoji to use when you’re flirting? 😏
Should I text you goodnight or good morning more often?
What’s the first thing you thought when my name popped up on your screen?
If I sent you a surprise selfie, would you send one back? 😉
Do you smile when you see my texts?
If I dared you to send me a cute selfie, would you?
Do you prefer long texts or short but sweet ones?
Can I be the reason you stay up a little later tonight?
Do you like it when I text you randomly—or should I plan it?
What’s your favorite flirty emoji combo?
Should I spam you with compliments today?
Do you like late-night chats that last until 2 a.m.?
What’s one thing you wish I’d text you right now?
If I texted “I miss you,” what would you reply?
Do you check your phone waiting for my texts?
Would you rather I send you jokes or compliments?
Do you like when guys text first—or should I wait?
If I texted “Guess what?”—what would you hope comes next?
Do you like voice notes—or just texting?
If I texted “come outside,” would you? 😉
What’s your favorite kind of goodnight text?
Do you like flirty memes or cheesy pickup lines more?
Can I text you every day without annoying you?
Do you ever reread my texts?
Would you rather I text “I like you” or say it in person?
Do you like it when someone texts you out of the blue?
What’s one emoji that reminds you of me?
If I texted “Netflix and chill?”—what’s your reply?
Do you prefer sweet texts or spicy ones? 😉
Should I send you more random “thinking of you” texts?
Do you like flirty riddles—or straight-up questions?
If I texted “you free?”—would you say yes instantly?
Do you smile at your phone when I text you?
Would you rather I text compliments about your looks or your vibe?
Do you like surprise morning texts?
If I texted “I have a crush,” would you guess it’s you?
Do you like being called babe over text?
Can I blow up your notifications today?
Do you prefer voice notes that say “goodnight” or “good morning”?
What’s one flirty text you’d love to get from me?
Should I start sending you memes daily as proof I’m thinking of you?
Do you like late-night heart-to-hearts over text?
What’s your favorite reply to “wyd”?
Would you rather a surprise text or a surprise call?
If I texted “let’s hang,” would you be down?
Do you like GIFs that flirt—or do they make you cringe?
What’s the cutest text I could send you right now?
Can I be the person you never leave on read?
Do you like being teased over text?
Should I keep texting you until you agree to a date?

Clever Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

If we were in a rom-com, would I be the goofy best friend or the guy you fall for?
Which emoji best describes how you feel when I text you?
If I said I’m bad at math, could I still count on you? 😉
What’s more fun—me teasing you, or you trying to outsmart me?
If I made you laugh every day, would you consider that a love language?
Do you believe flirting is an art… or should I keep practicing on you?
If we had to fake-date for a week, how fast do you think we’d actually catch feelings?
Which is harder—ignoring my texts or ignoring my smile?
Do you think we’d win “Best Couple” in high school yearbook superlatives?
If I gave you three wishes, would one of them involve me?
Do you like guys who are smooth—or those who trip over their own pickup lines?
If you could teleport anywhere right now, would you teleport to me?
What’s more dangerous—my smile or my sarcasm?
Do you believe in love at first sight—or should I walk by again?
If I challenged you to trivia, would you let me win just to see me smile?
What’s the funniest way you could imagine me asking you out?
Which is cuter—me trying to impress you, or me failing at it?
If I said I wrote a poem about you, would you roll your eyes or melt?
Do you think I’d survive as your personal comedian?
Which would you rather—endless pizza or endless dates with me?
If we had a secret handshake, what would it be?
Do you think I’d make a good partner-in-crime?
If I made a playlist called “For Her”… should I send it to you?
What’s one clever way you’d flirt with me back?
Do you think I’d survive a day without teasing you?
Would you rather get flowers or cheesy jokes from me?
If I got lost in your eyes, would you give me directions?
Do you think sarcasm counts as flirting—or do I need to step it up?
Which one’s better: my texts or my actual presence?
If I wrote you riddles instead of texts, would you solve them or ignore me?
Do you like subtle hints, or should I just say “I like you”?
Would you rather I flirt with clever lines—or just tell you you’re gorgeous?
What’s smarter—me asking this question, or you smiling at it?
If I gave you a puzzle, would the answer be my name?
Do you like someone who teases your brain or your heart?
Which one’s more fun—me asking clever questions or you trying not to blush?
Do you think I’d win an award for smooth talking?
If I said “you’re my type,” would you say “finally” or “prove it”?
Do you like hidden meanings in texts—or do you want me to be obvious?
Which is more attractive: a clever joke or a bold compliment?
If we had an inside joke, what would it be about?
Would you rather be my muse or my co-writer?
Do you think banter counts as flirting—or am I just in denial?
If I guessed your favorite dessert, do I get a date?
Would you rather I text you a riddle or a heart emoji?
Which is harder to resist—chocolate or me trying to charm you?
If I said I can’t stop thinking of you, would that count as clever—or just honest?
Do you think clever questions like this actually work? 😉
Would you rather solve puzzles with me—or just be my mystery?
Am I making you laugh, or secretly making you like me more?

Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl To Make Her Blush

Do you know how cute you look when you smile at me?
If I told you I can’t stop staring at you, would you believe me?
Would it make you blush if I said you’re the prettiest person here?
Can I call you “mine,” or is that too soon?
Do you realize how hard it is not to kiss you right now?
What’s sweeter—dessert or the way you laugh?
If I leaned closer, would you stop me? 😉
Do you know how distracting you are when you look at me like that?
Would you be embarrassed if I told people you’re my crush?
Do you like being called gorgeous—or do you prefer beautiful?
If I said you’re my favorite notification, would that make you smile?
Do you know you’re the reason my heart races?
What’s cuter—me complimenting your smile or your eyes?
If I whispered “you’re stunning,” would you blush?
Do you think I’d look good standing next to you… forever?
What’s more dangerous—your eyes or your smile?
If I said I dreamt of you, would that be too much?
Do you know how hard it is not to flirt with you 24/7?
Would it make you blush if I called you the prettiest girl I know?
What’s better—me making you laugh or making you blush?
If I held your hand, would you pull away or squeeze tighter?
Do you know how much better you make my day?
Which is cuter—your blush or your giggle?
If I said you make my heart skip beats, would you roll your eyes or smile?
Do you know how adorable you look when you get shy?
Would you let me call you “baby”?
If I said you’re in my top 3 favorite humans, would you ask who the other two are? 😉
Do you know I think of you every time I hear a love song?
Would you blush if I posted a cute picture of us together?
What’s more romantic—me writing you a note or singing you a song?
If I kissed your hand, would that make you shy?
Do you realize you give me butterflies every time you text me?
Would you let me steal a kiss if no one was watching?
Do you know how often I brag about you in my head?
What’s cuter—your laugh or the way you hide your blush?
If I told you you’re unforgettable, would that make you blush?
Do you like being spoiled with compliments?
Which would you rather—me saying you’re beautiful or showing it with actions?
Do you know you’re the prettiest thought I have daily?
Would you blush if I said I picture us together?
If I sent you flowers, would you smile all day?
Do you like being admired—or does it make you shy?
What’s more dangerous—my charm or your cuteness?
If I kissed your cheek, would you turn red?
Do you know how adorable you are when you tease me back?
Would you blush if I called you the most gorgeous girl alive?
Which is sweeter—you or the way you make me feel?
If I whispered in your ear, would you get chills?
Do you realize you’re stealing my focus right now?
Would you let me be the reason you blush more often?